Ten years ago this week I turned 30. On Thursday, another birthday - you do the math. The number doesn't bother me like it did someone else who lives here [Paul] when it was their big day, it really is just a number. While the whole age thing doesn't bother me, it has gotten me thinking about the last 10 years a lot.
Ten years ago, I was divorced, living back home with my parents, up to my ears in debt, and wasn't really sure what my next move was. All that being said, it still felt like it would be OK. Don't get me wrong, it wasn't like it was me against the world .. I had the most supportive, loyal, generous friends and family you could ask for. There was always an invitation to keep me busy, distracted and focused on moving forward.
Then there was a chance meeting at a friend's 40th Birthday party ... which, come to find out, really wasn't much left to chance at all. Thanks Tom & Addie. It seemed like months later, but finally a first date. Then there was another and another. Months later living together, then an engagement, a wedding, and a daughter. Then almost 3 years later another daughter. Promotions and additional responsibilities at work, friends moving on and out of our lives to be replaced with new friends. Ten years of mutual admiration and respect for each other.
When I got divorced, I always saw myself remarried, with kids, living my own little white picket fence version of the American Dream. The last 10 years were not always roses and lollipops and we have literally taken down every last piece of white picket fence in this yard (picket fences are overrated and a complete pain in the a$$ to paint.) I can tell you the life that is my life today, at 40, is sweeter than it was at 20 or 30. I never could have dreamed it would be this good. In some strange kind of way, I am thankful for every tear, heartache, and experience that led me to the person I've become.
May the journey to 50 be as rewarding.
2 comments:
Amen!
Boy 10 years ago - I was starting a journey of my own, little did I know that after that journey - I would get to meet the most amazing person in my work life. Someone that I would get to know from afar, since we lived thousands of miles apart - but would feel a kindred spirit with. As we became closer friends through our work, I realized what a special person she was and even though she then became my boss, the friendship was still there and I now also respected and appreciated her leadership. While the "direct" boss/employee relationship is not there anymore, the friendship is and I appreciate every moment of it. You are correct - it's just a number and I am 'ahem' a LITTLE bit older than you so please don't go and remind me. You are wise beyond your years and I appreciate you every day as a co-worker, leader and friend. Happy Birthday Heather! You deserve many many years of happiness and success - you are JUST getting started! mpoe
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