5.10.2016

Public Comment ...

Earlier tonight, I read this at a Norwich Board of Education Meeting. I got all the way to the last paragrah when they told me I had to "wrap it up" .... here is the complete version!

Heather Romanski, Scotland Road, parent of 2 daughters at the Nationally Recognized Moriarty Environmental Sciences Magnet School and passionate supporter and advocate for Norwich Public Schools.

I come before you today and ask you to give thoughtful consideration to the ways in which you will address the shortfall in funding you will face this coming year. I implore you to take actions that minimize the impact to staffing and programs that directly impact the children of Norwich Public Schools. I dare you to brainstorm a way to end the cycle of presenting a budget, have it underfunded and face this challenge again and again.

To date, I believe, 72 pink slips have been delivered to non-tenured teachers. I shudder at the thought of what that does to our ability to quote your 30 second marketing video “focus on our students”.

I’m asking you to think outside of the box - to not go the historical route and slash the number of teaching staff. I’m asking you to take a hard look at the way our non-teaching staff work. Do we need a separate building for central office?  We’re a Google Apps for Education district - how about using the technology we’ve invested in to help us reduce our costs? Use tools like Google Hangouts with video calls, allow people to telecommute.  Stop funding cell phones, or move to a more cost effective stipend program that isn’t subject to carrier contracts and requires less administration. This is becoming an industry standard. I’m suggesting a cost review like no other - reviewing health insurance costs, property insurance costs, consider changing the number of days that administrators work, evaluate the workloads of the administrative assistants - decide if we can afford both a full time and part time admin that exist today in more than one of our schools. In a previous job I was responsible for 22 million dollars in operating budgets, I recognize that what I am proposing is not a simple task. For as long as I can remember the Board of Ed has struggled to present a budget that was fully funded, we need a new approach.

How do we continue as a district that markets itself as working under a framework of a “Forward Thinking Future” when we continue to do business in the very same way, year after year.  Our district often looks to outside consultants when it comes to advice on our infrastructure and other needs,  perhaps we need to seek outside financial services - that proverbial “fresh set of eyes”.  Maybe it’s time to spend money on professional financial services in an effort to find more cost savings.

At the end of the year, our Curriculum Director is retiring, the district has a history of bringing back retired staff as consultants. Will Mr. Stefon be returning in this capacity? If so, I ask how you, our board, can justify paying administrative consulting fees while laying off teachers?      Perhaps the Board considers eliminating that position all together and redistributes the responsibilities across other qualified staff. Maybe those consulting dollars are better spent on the budget consulting I referred to earlier.

Less than a week ago Moriarty received a National Award for Excellence, this was the result of an intensely collaborative and driven staff to make that program and that school the best it can be. I suspect while they are pleased with the work they have done, they’ll tell you they still have a ways to go. The bar has been set - as a board and an administrative team - you should be proud, you allowed them to take that risk, but you should also be worried.  One of your responsibilities, is to ensure that the high standard can continue.  I can assure you that cutting staff and programs that impact our students on a daily basis will not win you any more awards. I am also confident, that if we keep doing business the very same way, we will continue to be plagued by the very same problems. My husband and I are constantly challenging our girls to learn from their mistakes, to alter their behaviors to get a better result. They are challenged in the same way by their teachers. Isn’t that one of our greatest goals in education? I respectfully ask you to lead by example and alter your behavior to get a better result.

Thank you.






5.06.2016

Seven .. Lucky Number Seven


Today our "baby" turned 7 ... SEVEN. Seriously HOW is that even possible? Wasn't I just waddling around and throwing up every 10 minutes?  Apparently not, Paul assures me that it actually HAS been 7 years. 

From the get go I should have known this one was trouble. Pregnancy problems, an 11 day early arrival, you know - little things like that. 

There was hand, foot and mouth disease .. complete with a 104+ degree fever and ER visits. 

There was eye surgery at 3 ... allergic reactions to medications .. I mean I'm not exaggerating - it is ALWAYS something with this kid.

She hates surprises and to be the center of attention. She gets easily overwhelmed by big crowds.

She loves to be busy and play outside. She HATES to clean up and has no concept of what "put that away" means. 

She loves horses, school, art, singing and gymnastics!



She loves babies.

 She HATES shoes.

She is the opposite of her big sister. She is fearless and climbs first and then wonders how she'll get down ... and then she just JUMPS. 

There are days when she really, really tries my patience. There are days .. oh there are days. 

Thing is - there is something about her - she draws you in. You can be having the worst day and she'll say something in the way that she says things that makes it all melt away. Dimples? Her smile? I'm not sure .. I do know that when she arrived she was that final piece to finish the puzzle of our family. 





11.17.2015

Faith and Love

#15 - I am thankful for Faith
I belong to a small Congregational Church in Norwich. I started going there just before Paul and I were married and I eventually became a member. The girls were both Baptized there and we go every Sunday.. ok, most Sundays. That Church has become an extension of our family. 

There was a time in my life that I felt like God let the good and bad happen. When some particularly sad or tragic thing happened I would think "Why did God do this? Why did he take them? Why did he cause such suffering?" 

I think as you experience more life your thinking evolves, at least mine has. The way I see it, there is evil in this world and terrible things happen. More often than not, those bad things happen to amazingly good people. The God that I believe in weeps with me, suffers with me, comforts me when I am hurting. He carries me when I am weak. 

Remember Footprints in the Sand?   “The years when you have seen only one set of footprints, my child, is when I carried you.”

In June, we attended a benefit for friends who have a son battling cancer. We have been involved in lots of events for this family and each and every time Paul and I are so impressed by the way the community comes together for them. They have been lifted in prayer, showered with gifts, food, financial support. At this picnic, my friend took the microphone to thank those in attendance. Her son was having a good day - running, laughing, enjoying the attention and activities - the others in attendance were having a good day too. You could feel the pride radiating from the organizers in their success, you could almost touch the joy of every person in attendance. Her words struck me and I hope I quote her accurately ..."I stopped asking Why? Why does a little boy gets cancer a long time ago...but maybe this was it..to bring people together, to get people to stop and love each other, to remind us that there are so many good people out there" I knew that it was her Faith that had been sustaining her through the ups and downs and gave her the strength to face the next day. I recognized it in her because I'd seen it in myself. 

It makes me sad when I think about the people who don't believe in something bigger than them. I wonder how they get through the rough times, what sustains them. 

I'm thankful for my Faith and the strength and comfort that it provides me. 

At Least I've Still Got My Health

#14 - I am thankful that I am healthy ...

On Saturday we are going to a funeral for a friend, he was 55. That is too young, too soon for him to be gone from this world. In January, friends found out that their son, not quite 2, had Leukemia and they fight on. We have other friends who suffer from chronic pain or significant health challenges.

We have another acquaintance who is suffering from unexplained blackouts and is now not able to work. His family is not only faced with the scary prospect of finding the source of the problem but now they are dealing with a loss of income. 

I read somewhere that the average american is just 1 medical crisis away from bankruptcy. After being out of work for a while and collecting unemployment, I really began to understand how true that statement is. 

I can feel myself starting to age .. I'm slower than I was, I'm heavier than I was, it takes me longer to recover when I burn the candle at both ends ... my feet hurt, my legs and back ache ... but if I go to bed a little earlier and wear "sensible" shoes those things fade some. 

We are so lucky, so fortunate, so blessed that we are healthy; that our kids are healthy. All too often we take that for granted ..... 

Finally Friday

#13 - I'm thankful for Friday

I've said it before, I'll say it again....Thank Goodness for Friday!

Sometimes you just need a break ....

... no alarm

... no lunch boxes

... no homework

... no uniforms

... PAYDAY

... "oldies night" ... the girls have started a new Friday night ritual .. they stream I Love Lucy and Mr. Ed to the TV from their ipad. Paul thinks it is great, I retreat to our bedroom and read or watch something on the other TV. I do that with a big grin on my face listening to the 3 of them roar with laughter watching those old shows. 

T.G. I. T

#12 - I am thankful for Thursday night TV

I know it is supposed to say TGIF .. but last year when producer Shonda Rhimes created a new show called "How to Get Away with Murder" and placed it behind Grey's Anatomy and Scandal it was a clean sweep for her .. she owned Thursday night on ABC. 

I was late to the Scandal and Greys game .. I caught up on the previous seasons via Amazon, Hulu, and Netflix. There was no way I was going to get behind on the 8 ball on How to Get Away ... it annoys me a little, it jumps from present to past and back again several times an episode but it is SO good. 

Greys kills me ... I am so invested in the characters and their stories. I swear most weeks I am crying within 5-10 min of the episode starting.  Even after all these seasons Shonda can still surprise me. Yup didn't see Derek getting smushed by the semi last season ... Thanks, thank a bunch for that one!

Then there is Scandal ... am I supposed to believe that a high powered fixer can have an affair with the president.. for years...and that people notice and don't say "boo" 

We won't even start with how unrealistic How to Get Away is .. but the thing is the writing, the acting, it is SO good .. the people are SO talented that it does not matter. You can't pull yourself away. 

By the time Thursday rolls around I'm getting tired .... I look forward to sitting on the couch with my puzzle book, iPad or catalogs and catching up with my "people" 


11.11.2015

Thank You for Your Service

# 11 - I'm so thankful for our Military and Veterans

Today is Veterans Day. I started the day by posting the picture of my dad from his days in the Army. I showed Brooke and she said "You look like him" .. I don't see that .. but when I look at this picture, I see my nephew through and through. 




Then there was breakfast for the Veterans on the Service Desk and Desktop Support Teams. We surprised them which was SO fun!!!



In the afternoon there was a small reception in the library. In our organization we have 8 Veterans, 7 are pictured below. These are humble and unassuming people. They do not like to be the center of attention and many of them find excuses not to attend these types of "social" events. I was SO PROUD of their attendance and to have the opportunity to thank them for their years of service to our Country.